As militant as I like to be about prams and the bus wheelchair space, I can’t help but feel rather guilty occasionally. It may not have been the driest day for it, but I went exploring today: a couple of days ago my friend Kate suggested meeting for coffee sometime, and that the nearest tube station to her was Finsbury Park. Accordingly, today I decided to see how easy it would be to get there. To cut a convoluted story short, three tube lines later I got there safe and sound.
The problem was, by then it was bucketing it down. I would have liked to explore the area a bit more, but instead decided I better head back. Luckily outside the tube station I found a bus heading to Liverpool Street station, from where I could get the Elisabeth line- that would be far more straightforward than getting back on the tube.
Shortly after getting on the bus though, it stopped again: a mum was waiting there with a pram, three young sons and their apparent grandfather. The little boys got on with their grandad, but the bus driver wouldn’t let the mum on with her pram because I was in the wheelchair space. By then it was too late though, and as the bus door shut the three boys burst into tears at being parted from their mother. Obviously they were perfectly fine as their granddad was with them, and he told them to calm down, both adults silently agreeing that they would meet at their destination. But nonetheless the incident made my heart sink: I felt so guilty for making those children cry. Of course I knew their parting wouldn’t last long, and that I had every right to be sat where I was; yet I don’t think people realise how galling and disheartening knowing you have caused such turmoil can be.



